As all of us aware of, recently a social blunder happened in Kuantan, between an elderly retired medical assistant and a wedding planner Kiki. As Kiki made a wrong step, deal the situation which was unacceptable socially by most of the malaysian. Kiki remorsed and apologize to uncle Sim and he as a mature septuagenarian forgives her.
What it has to do with us?
I think all of us should learn from this incident, lessons in life largely learnt from mistakes. We should not wait to make a mistake, we should take the opportunity to learn from someone else mistakes too.
Anger is normal emotion of a human but it turns destructive when it is out of control. As the famous saying says: CONTROL ANGER BEFORE IT CONTROLS YOU!. We should stop for a second before reacting when we are angry(which is not so possible most of the times). There must be a way which suitable for us to manage our anger so we don't look like a fool at the end.
As we grow older, i think eventually we will learn slowly to control anger. From the time i started my housemanship till today working for 7 years i saw the trend. Now I am able to handle such situations better with patients and staffs. I felt better now then last time when sometimes i remorse over what I said or do.
So I believe anger is something which we can bring to our control. One thing I can see, in future people will behave appropriately on the road as everyone carries an handphone, when u act funny be ready to see yourself and your act on the net!
